Sunday, September 3, 2017
[Link] The Body Language of Attraction: Information for Writers
He loves me? He loves me not?
Surely your intrepid heroine knows better than to rely on the petals of the daisy to tell her the truth - the answer to her question is standing right in front of her.
Bodies rarely lie.
Your heroine looks beyond the words and judges whether this is a future love interest or this is a waste of her time.
The first rule of thumb is never assume. Making a determination is based on an accumulation of body language information. Some of the body language gestures that your heroine is looking for may be personality quirks that do NOT inform the communication. As an example, I have often been called out for playing with my hair - many a man has read that a woman touching her hair is a sign of sexual desire. And I'm not saying that this is incorrect in every instance of my playing with my hair - I'm just saying that in general my hair gets in my way, and I am constantly touching my hair. So this would not be a good "tell" for me. What you want your heroine to see is what changes, where does the character act differently.
A tell is a body language signal that is produced without thought. It signals information to a recipient. Some people are more dexterous in reading body language than others.
Read the full article: http://thrillwriting.blogspot.com/2014/02/is-body-language-of-attraction.html